A morning in the day of the life

“Sam, get back in this house right now. We do not go outdoors naked.” I stagger-stuffed my legs into jeans as I pelted out onto the back patio. “Jesus Christ it’s cold.” I turned around and went back for something to put on my feet.

“Told you.” Scott was lacing up his own shoes.

We went back out together. Sam poked his penis through the tree house slats and shook it at us. “Wanker!”

“Oh God, I thought the ‘wanker’ phase was over.”  I stalked to the base of the tree. “You’re going to get splinters if you keep that there.”

I could feel Scott’s eyes on my back. We both knew I was the one who taught him that word for his favorite piece of anatomy. I turned to my husband, “He was two!” I protested.”And how was I supposed to know that of all the foul words I spew over the course of a day, it would be that one that stuck?”

Scott shook his head. “Well he’s not two now. And at least two neighbors can see him from there.” He joined me.

“More than that.” I counted the houses visible from our yard. “Maybe they’re all still asleep, enjoying that extra hour.”

“Let’s hope.” Scott started up the ladder. “Sam, you need to get down.”

“Wanker!”

I tried, “Aren’t you cold?”

“My penis is cold,” he admitted.

“Let’s take your penis inside and put it in some underpants.”

“He’s not that cold.”

He?

Scott was up in the tree house now. “How long have you been out here?”

I didn’t hear anything, so I climbed up enough to poke my head through the floor. “How did you get out?”

“I unlocked the door.” Sam rolled his eyes. He was right. It was a stupid question. Scott and I had both seen the key in the deadbolt. And we had known what happened even before that when we woke to the sound of his voice singing in the back yard.

“What happened buddy? Did you get hot?”

“Yes! I was sweating in bed, and I felt awful, and I wanted to be cold, so I came outside.”

Ah. Progress. His teacher had reported something similar when we started this dial down of his current medications. Her class is particularly chilly, and there was one day when all the other kids were sitting at their desks wearing jackets, and Sam was in shirtsleeves with soaking wet, heat-mottled skin. It made some sense. Tenex was originally a blood pressure drug. Sam took it to help with his behaviors, and even a slow rate of decrease was producing some serious side effects.

That and all the behaviors it had been controlling were returning with a vengeance.

“Well come and get Mom and Dad when that kind of thing happens. We can get you a cold bath next time, Okay?”

He screwed up his face and roared. So much for progress.

“Are you still hot?” Scott tried.

Sam bellowed, “Noooo!” and stomped one foot.

“We have got to go in,” I told him. “And your choices are to climb down the ladder or let Daddy pass you to me over the railing.”

“Those are not my choices!” OK, he was right. The second one was a bluff.   “I’m climbing down my way/.”

“Uh.”

“I’m coming down the ladder.”

“Right, great idea. Glad you thought of that all by yourself.” The sarcasm was lost. I scrambled down out of his way. He followed, and Scott came last.

“Are you walking in,” I asked, “Or am I carrying…”

“I’m running,” he declared. He took off towards the back door. “Cheetah speed!”

The door popped open before he could ram it. I called, “Thanks Caroline.”

Inside, I said, “How much longer until we can start the new stuff?”

“We’ve still got half a pill of old stuff to phase out.”

Sam thundered down the hall to his room.

It was six o’clock in the morning. But our bodies were screaming “too early” at us. There were at least fourteen hours before we could hope to put Sam back to bed.   “So you’re saying, ‘not soon’.”

“No. Not soon at all. Best not to think about it.”

I am Ostimus Prime!” Sam bulleted out in a cape and Star Wars boxers.

I said, “It’s Optimus Prime.”

Scott said, “I don’t care if he’s Osteoporosis Prime. He’s wearing pants.”

“Point taken. Let’s see if we can get some breakfast in him.”

“OK. Maybe a pancake will settle him down.”

I looked at Scott. He looked at me. We both knew it wouldn’t happen. I said, “Hopefully,” and went to the kitchen to find the griddle.

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    • I ran around naked ALL the time at that age. We lived down this long driveway, and I’d get off the schoolbus and head for the house in full stripper mode. Mom would follow me picking up the clothes as I shed them. But there wasn’t anything sexual in it. Sam is … alarming when less than fully medicated.

  1. This was a really great vignette of a moment in your life–loved the details and the dialogue. I think it’s posts like these that really help people from the outside understand better what it’s like. Love the love and care and the reality you show here. Nicely done!
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  2. I love slice of life stories and you did a great job of putting us there with you. I got a little stressed out, in fact, when I thought he was not going to come down without a lot of negotiation. Hope the new meds are working!
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  3. What a great snap shot of your life! That was heartfelt and seriously hilarious. I like the way you do dialogue.
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  4. I’m laughing but I’m doing so because of the way you tell this and not the stress and complications of rearing a unique child like Sam! Love wanker! Reminds me of a story when we were biking through a forest preserve and Matt had to go to the bathroom in the portapotty. I told him not to touch anything. When he came out I asked if he had. His honest reply was, “Just my dick.” I’m such a good mom!
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  5. Loved the pacing and the dialogue and your mothering instincts. I can’t imagine handling this situation with such grace and humor. We can barely get our kid bathed let alone talk her calmly and lovingly down from a tree house. Naked. You’re amazing. And so is your brilliant little boy.
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  6. Oh, you made me howl with the “You’re going to get splinters if you keep that there” Lawd! I’m cracking up just reading that again! I really felt like I was there with you that morning!(but I’m glad I wasn’t. I don’t do well in the cold!!)
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  7. I love the ballet picture. He’s a sweetie. And how funny is this story. You had me when you said you stagger-stuffed your jeans on. And I love the word wanker.

  8. I am always touched when you write a bout Sam. As a writer, you do it with grace and great s type and pacing and tone. As a mom, you toggle that line of showing us the challenges we all have raising our kids, but with love and compassion. Beautiful.
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  9. This was fun! It’s amazing how one little person can have two adults at his mercy :) Sam, although I’m sure is a handful for tired parents, is so cute. At least he’s living life to the fullest!
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  10. My daughter has just started randomly stripping in the house, diaper and all. At least so far she’s remained inside! I always wonder where they get all that energy from. Was I really so full of beans at that age? Because I could use some of that excess energy now!
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  11. Funny and well written post. I was laughin my butt off at, “You’re going to get splinters if you keep that there.”
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  12. Ugh… new meds. No fun for you as parents or him as patient. That being said, this was loving and hilarious in one breath. And it made me think of the times my little brothers would streak through my play dates,giggling and goofy and totally naked, leaving tween girls howling in protest in their wakes.
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  13. I was there, in the moment and saw everything happen. You have such a gift as a story teller, and so, so, so much patience.

    I hope the new medicine works for you and that you get some sleep!
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  14. This really cracked me up: “And how was I supposed to know that of all the foul words I spew over the course of a day, it would be that one that stuck?”

    I feel the same way and really need to find a way to work “wanker” into my repertoire. What a great word!

    I loved this glimpse into your daily life. It showed the challenges you face, but it also revealed the love and strength of your relationship with your husband.

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